Being A Grandma

There are two favorite people in my life that I would like to mention in this blog. They are my two grandchildren whom I adore. Before they came into my life, my friends would say...."wait until you are a grandma.... it is so much fun." I wondered how anything could be "that" fun. Well, I'm here to say that it is a joy being a grandparent.

Grandchildren's love is unconditional. You don’t have to do much to make them feel your love. They are so excited to see you and can't wait to show you all their toys that you have seen a million times before. The funny part is that you don't mind seeing them a million times. They are so full of energy and get thrilled over the littlest things (like a McDonald toy even though they have several).

I have a grandson named Jarem and a granddaughter named Alexa. Jarem is 3 1/2 and Lexi (her nickname) is 9 months. Both are unique and fun! I love seeing their faces light up when Gramma comes. I love hearing them talk, sing (or try too...in Lexi's case), and try to speak Spanish. (On a side note, many in our family are blessed to know both Spanish and English. Jarem has heard his Grandpa, Uncle, Aunt, and even his father speak Spanish). Although Jarem's Spanish doesn't sound like the rest of the families...it still sounds foreign to me. Reading books is a favorite past time and hearing Jarem read them to me is quite exciting (even though it is memorized). Playing games, throwing the basketball, soccer (when it is good weather), or just playing with toys make a grandma's life worth living. It is the simple things like hugs and kisses. I can feel their love and acceptance. I know they care and I hope that I can always “be there” for them.

I will admit that at first I was scared of being a Grandma. Would they love me for me? Would I be a “good” Grandma? Would they want to be around somebody that was old and aging? All my fears have been calmed down. I’m not afraid any more. I look forward to more Grandchildren that will bless our family and be welcome and part of my life. I look forward to the adventures that will be placed before me. I LOVE being a grandma!!!